You are working that nine to five job somewhere mediocre, putting hours into making someone else rich. All you are rewarded with is just about enough money to keep the lights on and food on the table. Your boss, however, he is taking expensive holidays, dining out five days a week, showing off the latest phone, and driving around in his flashy car.
If you were one of those little girls who dreamed about her wedding, in your head it was probably something similar to this: large white dress, horse-drawn carriage, Mr. Right waiting for you at the end of an aisle, your friends and family surrounding you and gushing about how perfect everything is. You may have never understood why anyone would run off and elope.
"So, are you still having sex?" My best friend Charlotte and I were a couple of drinks in when she blurted this question out to me. Charlotte was shy and very prudish, not one to mention the 'S' word without blushing, at least not normally. I laughed at her, not embarrassed at all. I didn't have to think about it at all.
We all daydream about it don't we? Sunbathing on a yacht in St. Tropez, living as the other half do, no worries about money. Spending our days shopping, buying millions of things that we might never need. Filling the rest of our time with hair appointments and spa visits. So what would it be like to live that life every day?
You’ve been together for a while, you’ve been through some good times and some bad. But you still have those doubts in the back of your mind: “Will he get bored of me?”. Spending the rest of your life with one person is a big deal, it is.
So you’ve just started seeing this guy that you’re really attracted to. You could barely wait to strip him naked and have him on top of you. You are so turned on.