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10 Weird Things New Mothers Worry About
10 things a new mother worries about, but shouldn't. 1. Childbirth. It is defiantly something all new mothers worry about because you don't know what to expect, and I completely understand that. I never thought about childbirth until I was getting induced. I started worrying that day, and the thoughts were overloading my brain. It is scary, but you have to do it. So no matter what, you have to be brave and push that baby out! I'm not going to lie to you. Childbirth is extremely painful, but it will be okay. Once you see your baby, all the pain and worry disappears and you realize that all the pain and pushing was so worth it. So don't worry and just PUSH!
It's what most mothers struggle with but never talk about. It's staying up all night thinking about whether you are a good mother, or not. It's thinking that you hurt your baby even though all you did was pick them up. It's crying without having a good reason to cry. It's postpartum depression. Depressing thoughts, harmful feelings, and a mother never thinking they are good enough. Postpartum depression is defeating, and it's something nobody can cure on their own. It will defeat you. You will not win, unless you get the help you need. The thoughts will never go away. They will either be there in full force, or they will be subsided with medications, but they never go away.
What They Don't Tell You About Childbirth
Has anyone ever told you that childbirth is so beautiful? Well they are wrong. The only beautiful part about childbirth is your sweet precious baby or babies that are born. Other than that, the whole process is pretty much a disaster. For some, the process is extremely easy. For most, the process was like mine. The hardest thing I have ever experienced.
Are Secrets Good or Bad?
According to many psychologists, having secrets could be potentially dangerous to our health and behaviors. But this really depends on how many secrets you are holding in and how deep those secrets are. The most common time to have secrets is in high school when teenagers are experiencing different things and being exposed to different groups of people. Statistically, everyone has secrets. Even though you might have more or your secrets are deeper than most, you are not alone.
5 Tips on How to Save Money
Have you ever asked your parents for money because you spent all your paycheck? How about missing an opportunity because you didn't have enough money for it? Say goodbye to these days because here are the best five tips that help you save money in no time. If you are reading this, then you must have some interest in saving money, so why not start now? The earlier you start saving, the more money you will have in the end. There are many different reasons why everyone should have a savings account, including emergency car troubles, rewarding vacations, a down payment on a new home, buying a cheap car, a down payment on a newer car and many other reasons. The sooner you start saving, the better.
Think Twice Before Moving in with a Friend
After living with my parents all my life, getting my own house felt like an essential. On top of that, it felt like freedom and a chance to be myself without my parents constantly telling me to do my chores and making every decision for me. The decision was easy. I’m getting my own apartment or house no matter what the costs are. From then on, I started searching for the perfect home. While looking, I brought the topic up to my co-workers who helped me search for a cheap house or apartment for rent that would fit my budget. After looking for some time, my friend mentioned that she was also looking for a place. We started spending more time together and quickly became close. I figured since my budget wasn’t very much, having a roomie would help with the bills and create more wiggle room for me financially. I never thought these decisions through as much as I should’ve because I was ready to get out of my parents' home. That was my first mistake.
Are Nipple Piercings Worth It?
Make sure you do your research before you decide to get nipple piercings. Nipple piercings are becoming more popular, and as many people are getting them done, others are wondering how bad it hurts and if they should get theirs done as well. Before getting my nipples pierced, I searched for hours trying to decide whether it was worth the pain and the money. After reading stories, watching videos, and looking at reviews on the piercing for hours, I decided that I was going to take the chance and go and get mine done. I have my top and bottom belly button pierced, my nipples, my ears, and I used to have my nose before I took it out. Although I have all these piercings, I am going to talk about the piercing that I love the most, my nipples.