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My Partner Watched, And Discovered She Liked It
It took my partner a while to grow fully comfortable with polyamory. When we met, I was already polyamorous, but she had never tried it before. Dating me was taking a step into the unknown, and I did my best to ensure she was comfortable. And, luckily for both of us, she found it to be a lifestyle that suited her to a tee.
We Need To Embrace Our Adult Crushes
A little while ago, I was talking with some friends about the world of dating. It was a long and rambling discussion, as some of the best conversations with friends tend to be. But eventually, we hit upon the topic of how to best handle rejection.
You’re Putting Your Marriage In Danger By Thinking Your Wedding Ring Matters
When I got married, I was proud to wear my wedding ring. It felt right to have it on my finger. Any other items of jewellery were removed each night, but my wedding ring remained on my finger. Wearing it simply became a part of who I was.
She Spent The Night With Another Man
Last week I spent the night alone. Because my partner was spending the night with another man. This isn’t the first time it’s happened. But previously, it’s only been when I’ve been away. She usually arranges to see him when I’m out of town. But this time was different. I was home, alone. She was out, with him.