Thomas Brand
Blogging about polyamory, ethical-non-monogamy, mental health, and modern relationships | (He/Him) | thomashbrand.com | ko-fi.com/thomashbrand
Going to a Sex Party? Prepare to be Disappointed
Sex parties. Such an exciting idea. Like-minded people coming together to enjoy sex in a new and thrilling way. Whether you enjoy watching, being watched, or simply revel in the shared sexual energy, sex parties are something many people fantasise about experiencing.
Thomas BrandPublished 9 days ago in Filthy
Why I Was Single for Over 10 Years
My romantic life has been one of scarcity or abundance. Today, I am part of the polyamorous community. I have an amazing partner, and also a large group of friends, some of whom I may or may not date in the future.
Thomas BrandPublished 23 days ago in Humans
My Partner Watched, And Discovered She Liked It
It took my partner a while to grow fully comfortable with polyamory. When we met, I was already polyamorous, but she had never tried it before. Dating me was taking a step into the unknown, and I did my best to ensure she was comfortable. And, luckily for both of us, she found it to be a lifestyle that suited her to a tee.
Thomas BrandPublished about a month ago in Filthy
I Found Her Sex Toy
I was 19. It had taken me a long time to get a girlfriend. 19 years, in fact. But, at long last, I had managed to achieve the impossible. An actual human girl was now dating me. More than that, actually having sex with me.
Thomas BrandPublished about a month ago in Filthy
We Need To Embrace Our Adult Crushes
A little while ago, I was talking with some friends about the world of dating. It was a long and rambling discussion, as some of the best conversations with friends tend to be. But eventually, we hit upon the topic of how to best handle rejection.
Thomas BrandPublished about a month ago in Humans
Is It Time To Stop Talking About Sex?
So, the big question. The one every polyamorous person will hear eventually. The one we ask you all to move on from. "How does the sex work?"
Thomas BrandPublished about a month ago in HumansYou’re Putting Your Marriage In Danger By Thinking Your Wedding Ring Matters
When I got married, I was proud to wear my wedding ring. It felt right to have it on my finger. Any other items of jewellery were removed each night, but my wedding ring remained on my finger. Wearing it simply became a part of who I was.
Thomas BrandPublished about a month ago in Humans
She Spent The Night With Another Man
Last week I spent the night alone. Because my partner was spending the night with another man. This isn’t the first time it’s happened. But previously, it’s only been when I’ve been away. She usually arranges to see him when I’m out of town. But this time was different. I was home, alone. She was out, with him.
Thomas BrandPublished about a month ago in Filthy
