real Jema
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Why things aren’t changing (for you)
The sad reality is that for a lot of us, our lives have been pretty much the same. We do the same things, we get the same results, and we constantly wish for a change, we want the world to change, for it to become a better place, a nicer place and everything we imagine. In the same way we want our lives to become better, maybe earn more or even just to do better the things we already do.
By real Jema4 days ago in Confessions
The easy way out
One fact I wish more people knew about is just how lazy their brains are, especially when it comes to analyzing events and drawing conclusions. Our brains will always seek the easiest solution to avoid having to do a lot of work purposefully so to save on energy, time and resources. What this means is that in every occasion we have to make use of our willpower to push our brains not to limit itself to the basic conclusion but to go beyond.
By real Jema4 days ago in Confessions
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Blame it on the circumstances
There are many reasons which can explain and possibly justify our current demise, in this article I’ll go through them and feel free to make use of them as an excuse the next time someone asks you why you failed. These are all legitimate reasons to justify failure, despite our best wishes and intentions we often fail as a result of these circumstances. Life is a complex journey filled with twists and turns, ups and downs which eventually lead us to either success or failure. While it’s tempting to attribute all setbacks to fate, a closer examination reveals a multitude of factors which contribute to our struggles.
By real Jema8 days ago in Confessions
Why good ideas fail
People often look for these “great ideas” and put in all their energy into it because they trust the greatness of the ideas is all it takes. I won’t refute or endorse that, however in this article I want to share with you some reasons why even great or good ideas can fail, not in an attempt to discourage you but rather to create some awareness in your mind so you can be prepared.
By real Jema8 days ago in Confessions
The Power of Collaboration
From my experience I have had a lot of challenges when it comes to collaborating with others, it has always been an uphill battle working with others when it comes to putting ideas together to achieve a goal, not necessarily because I am bad at collaboration but mostly for the reasons listed below. Despite this, I understand clearly the power of working together, and I know there is very little anyone of us can do alone. No matter how smart, strong, resilient, powerful you are there is always going to be a limit to how far you can go alone but when we all work together towards a common goal, there is no limit to how far we can go.
By real Jema8 days ago in Motivation
Why won’t you just ask
Very often, I find myself asking, “How many times are we going to make the same mistakes?” This is because I come across people who make the same mistakes I did when I was their age. It feels off to see them do those mistakes, for some they don’t have the courage to ask for help or advice, while for others who do ask they are often resistant to this advice and walk straight into those mistakes. Whether it is poor financial management, bad business strategies or simply bad communication skills, people consistently make the same mistakes over and over again, and we find ourselves craving that “I Told you so moment” more than anything else.
By real Jema18 days ago in Motivation
You need power to change things
In one way or the other, I am sure there are things you might want to change about the world, your life or probably just your current circumstances. Maybe you’ll like to earn more, or you’ll prefer the government did their Jobs a little better, or even still, you might like a nicer world. There is no shortage of things we would like to see change in the world, however so slightly.
By real Jema20 days ago in Motivation
