MICHELLE SMITH
Bio
An inspirational poet. Writing poems to show others that it is okay to show feelings another way. I've tried a couple articles but I've found I'm better at the poetry. Just want to inspire and encourage others through tough times.
Stories (117/0)
Alcohol (Alcoholism)
Alcohol (Alcoholism) Can you stop? Is it worth it? From personal experience it isn’t. Drinking isn’t worth your life or risking the lives of others. It ruins people’s attitude, personality and has them doing stupid things. I’m just as guilty as everyone else. However, I was able to overcome it. Cut it out of my life which has been the best thing. Things have been changing since I've decided to make a change for a better future for myself and children as should we all. Being aware of what alcohol can do is important. It isn’t something that we should mess around with. Our bodies are precious just like everyday is precious. That is why I wanted to share what alcohol (alcoholism) is. Things to look for, what to do and how you can overcome it too. After the past few years of dealing with someone who suffers from it, I know that this can benefit others. Your life is only a struggle when you allow it to be, but you can be better than letting a silly drink control your life.
By MICHELLE SMITH3 years ago in Psyche
Be evenly yoked
We as humans want everything to go our way. We want a relationship when we feel like it. Want to be loved when it is convenient for us. However, we put ourselves into situations that aren't ideal for us. We are to be evenly yoked with our partner. So being unevenly yoked isn't going to make for a great match. Yet we don't see that because our heart wants what it wants and to love who it wants to love.
By MICHELLE SMITH3 years ago in Humans
Dating a narcissist
Everyone says that a relationship is about compromise. Is it really? When dating someone who doesn't even want believe that they are a narcissist, is compromise considered? From experience I can tell you no. You will give up everything, lose everyone and even lose yourself. It will take years to build yourself back up. However, you will be able to do it. As someone who has a brother who is a narcissist and someone who has dated a man who was very controlling, abusive and emotionally recked me, I can assure you that you will get through this. I will explain how you can tell if they are a narcissist, how to avoid them and if you are suffering with one, how to cope to make the relationship work or how to leave them. It won't be an easy road but it is possible. Here we go!
By MICHELLE SMITH3 years ago in Humans
Foolish (Ignorant) Relationship
In a way I can’t consider this a relationship. It was a waste of three months of getting to know someone. Especially after letting the person know from the start that I wasn’t looking to get into a relationship. This is the one I regret the most but also the one that I have received surprises from. One surprise is my son that is on the way. In a way I am happy that I will have two boys but this is definitely not how I intended to do it. I wasn’t planning on being alone, left out of the blue because the other person decided they weren’t happy. This relationship has really made me pull back, really made me open my eyes and show me where I went wrong and how I didn’t follow through on the plan for me. I know I am loved. No matter what I know that when this relationship ended that I was not alone. As we all should remember when a relationship ends. We are not alone; our walk is with some special and he is always there. Never forget who stood by your side.
By MICHELLE SMITH3 years ago in Humans
Rescue Relationship
We’ve all been there I am sure. I never thought of it as a rescue relationship until someone pointed it out. The abusive relationship before this one made me blind. Never did I think that it would mess me up as bad as it did, but it led me to this next relationship that didn’t last and that I didn’t treat properly. However, it did lead me to the life I am learning and trying to live now for him.
By MICHELLE SMITH3 years ago in Humans
ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder)
What are you doing? Why are you yelling? Didn’t I just tell you to pick those up? That is a typical day in my home. Between running errands on my day off, working a full-time job and taking my child to school; dealing with ADHD is added to the list of things to deal with through out the day. However, it most certainly isn’t how I’d imagined starting my mornings and ending my evenings. Now I’ll begin by explaining what ADHD is, types of medications, treatment and how I’ve coped in my own way having a child with this disorder.
By MICHELLE SMITH3 years ago in Psyche
Abusive Relationship
We all have things that we regret. I regret making the same mistake with internet dating. After getting out of a seven-year relationship of course I hid behind a screen for the next couple months if not even a year. Mistake not learned! No relationship stuck but being your twenties usually is the time to explore your options. Which is what I was doing. Then I ran across my next long-term relationship. Not what I was expecting but it is one that I am not proud of.
By MICHELLE SMITH3 years ago in Psyche
IBS-C and Constipation (Differences, similarities, causes, treatment and diagnosis)
Common is what I was told. Yet the pain keeps growing day after day. Many others suffer from IBS-C, but the positive side is it can be overcome with a long process of elimination. It might be a common digestive disorder but not many are aware of it. First, I’ll break it down for you. IBS-C is defined as belly pain (abdominal pain) that is associated with constipation. As stated, it is a common digestive disorder which is affecting 7-21% of the general population. There are no lab test or imaging studies that can confirm a diagnosis but is based on a thorough medical history and physical exam. However, in certain situations, a limited amount of testing such as blood work or imaging studies may be needed to make sure other conditions are not present. Doctors use a tool called Rome criteria, a list of specific symptoms and factors that can help determine if someone has IBS-C. The most important of these criteria include the presence of abdominal pain or discomfort and change in bowel habits. Overall, IBS-C is pain within the abdomen and consist of constipation.
By MICHELLE SMITH3 years ago in Longevity
