Living in New York City kind of break any boredom or laziness. There is always something to see or to experience or to discover. The number of activities is endless. So endless that we might have a hard time to make the good choice sometimes. However, it sounds like I picked the right option last weekend... option that sent me right in the Past.
You may write for yourself in the first place, yet someday, you may reach a point where you wish your work had better recognition and exposure. You may somehow be willing to exhibit the writing skills you have been keeping secret for yourself so far. And yes, you are like us, writers—and humans beings—revealing your narcissistic side... but that is not it.
If I were you, I would avoid playing some kind of games like Sophie and Julien do in Jeux d'enfants. However, I would definitely watch that movie. I would also try to read The Most Relevant Dating Guide to play The Fair Game, just because you know, it is nice to be the winner sometimes. Oh wait... here it is:
Not only being smitten with someone makes you feel happy, but it also makes you feel powerful. Alas no, none of you is going to turn into any Marvel hero, but many of you still feel empowered. The truth is, even if you all think and behave differently in general, you all show similar attitudes when it comes time to interacting with that someone that you like. Lets check this out:
Let's face it—you can no longer think everything has to be black or white nowadays. You need to accept that anything in the world we live in has gray areas—and so do your relationship. Is it scary? Fear not! It is actually a pretty good balance, but for it to be so, you first need to agree on that reality.