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"Justice delayed, is justice denied" "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere."
Tattooed, Employed and has a Psych degree..Always on the look out for a group of Avengers.
What I need right now is you. Just you. I need you to make the world disappear as we get lost in each other. No words, just your body and mine. Your strength enveloping me allowing me the safety of surrender. Letting me let you be the only thing in the universe and me in yours. Simply transfixed on each other.
Self Care in Romantic Relationships
The argument that there should be no self care in romantic relationships is a fallacy. While you are part of an interdependent system, two pieces can't function without some balance. Without it, interdependence becomes codependency, and can even become separate functioning lives.
The Psychology of a Dominant ..
The best Doms I have ever had had no idea they even were. They were men who were very often unaware they had these traits. Oddly enough they were in helping fields- law enforcement, fire, lawyers. The were well educated, strong and kind. They did not have a need for control or power. They had this innate desire that could never be met by the average woman yet they would treat their women like gold- very often they were emasculated for their efforts. The phrase reads " a Dominant needs to needed and a submissive needs to be wanted." They have these huge hearts buried under stoic masks that they present to the world. The are the white knights who will hold a woman's hand in her weakest moment, and flinch at her tears or an injury to her and do anything to protect her.
Carebear 2021..The Best Of
This year has been especially hard. The last few have been very very hard. Between the pandemic and the obstructions in trying to get anyone to rectify their mistakes or anything done. There has not been a lot of progress on the big things but given what I have been through I always want to recognize the best of the best.
Care Bear Theory Lesson Plan
Care Bear Organizational Psychology Theory was created in May 2019 as a response to the actions of the Pooler Police Department and their continued violation of my rights while violating the law. While fleeing domestic violence of one of their officers, trying to get to someone I knew who would assist me in ending the abuse, of which I had many friends in well educated places, I was and have continued to be threatened, harassed and had without any cause my life fundamentally altered. Had a dead car battery not occurred, I would have been on my way to law school or to get a Masters in Counseling to focus on trauma counseling for first responders. No such luck when a police officer and his buddies on the force decide to threaten and harass a woman who was merely trying to get to friends, and right the mistakes of Chatham County Assistant Attorney Jennifer Davenport who had fundamentally altered the law by defrauding the Chatham County Superior Court and the Ga Supreme Court single handly.
When I think of wasted moments- they are moments without you. We both have lives that demand our attention, jobs and obligations, things that have to come first. They are things we have to do but they are moments away from you. Tu me manques..I am missing from you, you are missing from me.
Carebear Organizational Theory Part Two..
When we talk about systems working together we have to look at the pieces. For example the structure themselves, the functioning of the individual enties and how they function with other systems. There is always a cause and effect.
The Psychology of an Alpha Submissive...
Men have always tried to master me.. they had never been able to completely from CEO's to lawyers to even police officers. There was always a Domtourage in the wings to get me through the time without one, and it took all of them to be able to replace when there wasn't one, which she was always grateful for. Men always fell in love with me, without me even trying..not of my doing and mostly without me even knowing it.
The Modern Maslow Hierarchy of Needs
Maslow posited that to move up in life, tiers of needs needed to be met before an individual could essentially level up. However even he saw the fallacy in the original statement that the perception was that each need must be 100 percent satisfied before the next need could emerge and be met.
To the Media
Cancel culture has gone too far. When a rape victim is silenced by Facebook for telling her story 10 times in a month, when Facebook thinks that it is not a story when police officers commit a Federal RICO violation and the mainstream media has ignored. If I was a black man filming a traffic stop I would be given $20,000, but for telling my story so other women don't have their sexual assault covered up, their lives destroyed who was a member of law enforcement she has her Facebook Account disabled. It is not a hate crime to tell people what was done to you and continues to be done to you because Police Chief's including people that were your friends won't return a phone call. If the mainstream media doesn't want to hear it, someone has to be the one to tell it. You can't ignore sexual assault, and felonies by law enforcement for over two years and expect it is okay when you are endangering others lives. The power should not belong to People more concerned about "Where to higher a housekeeper than that the local law enforcement has had evidence of a rape that even Juvenile Court Judges have known about for over a year , and prevent a woman from expecting someone inside the state of Georgia to think it is wrong. How is that "violating community standards", It is a violation of community standards to prevent someone from speaking about their experience and the violation of their rights. It is a violation of community standards for police officers to break the law and no one to do anything about it.
Falling in Love...
There are some things we can't explain..Love is one of them. There is more to just how I feel but I am afraid to say anything. It's easier to pretend it is just a chemistry based on the things I want you to do to my body. That would be simple for most people..but not me.