Jay LeTron Dobbins
Bio
Casual writer! Love to express in print! Tell people how you feel and love life to the fullest with no regrets. Try to say something good about a person when they can hear it, and not when they are gone! Love like no tomorrow.
Stories (169/0)
The Value in a Mental Health Session
Not seeing a mental health doctor is the first sign of insanity! Now this is something that will do the soul good. I am going to focus on three areas or so that could help us all tremendously. Think of it as venting to a friend you really don't know, but there is not a worry of that friend airing the laundry out or talking to about friends about issues that is about to unravel your brain and soul. Now I know the stigma attached to seeing a doctor about some of the things that are going on and what makes life hard may be a difficult event; however, just understand he or she may be just as in need for a good conversation as you. We all need each other, but a doctor is a professional way to see someone with boundaries.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 months ago in Humans
What I can Do Without
Unfortunately, I only know two speeds in love! “Unconditional” and get the hell on with your bull shit! Dating can be so difficult these days! I try not to brag, however, I do consider myself to be a decent catch. I don't compare to any others and try not to compete against any man off the court or a field of play. This is my extended version of a dating profile and I decided to lay some more personal thoughts within this article. Basically, this is what makes Jermaine spin and what I will not tolerate when getting to know someone.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 months ago in Humans
The Night Before Valentine's
There is no need to settle, no need for Galentine's, but have your fun! However, as I make preparation and plans for you to be my prize, but this day I see so much anticipation, for you not to even be there. As go through my list of slow jams, but the time goes so fast getting my thoughts lost on you. Saw a dress the other day that would look so good on you, but far from your heart, knowing your dress size was the greatest clue. However, it was the night before Valentine's, and I messed up sending those flowers in box to you.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 months ago in Humans
The 1 that Got Away
I have been thinking this for years and I told her this some time ago. Now what I'm about to say may scare the little girl away, but will give full understanding to a woman of true caliber. Now we can all debate if true love has hit us at one time in our lives, but I can surely attest that the one who was intended to elevate and complete a man only comes around with not too many opportunities. No this is not love, but understanding that I have learned the lesson about the one who got away. Men are slapped with many chances for love and romance. Any half way decent man can attract a woman if he has manners, direction and goals in life. Sometimes the choices can overwhelm a man, and I for sure fell victim to this situation.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 months ago in Humans
The 3rd day before Valentine’s
Another bright sunny Southern Cal day and the long work day is finally over! Now, I have to fight this LA traffic, but the day is so young and there is no need to let a Friday night in LA go without recreation. The traffic was full and I had to walk to the parking garage, which was two blocks away. I took my chance as I crossed the faded crosswalk, there she was at the light, taking a "selfie". I continued to walk, but notices her checking me out from the corner of her eye. Not the bragging type, but I was having an "EMOTY" moment as the slight wind brushed against my pant leg and the soft super 400 blend rolled flawlessly with the stride of my legs. She gave a slight smile, and I returned a kind favor as I displayed my pearly whites, but tried to hide the one tooth slightly out of formation.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 months ago in Humans
Time to Align Yourself
We all say that the dating pool has pee in it! There seem to be too many dating experts out there who know it all. I think the most difficult aspect to take in about most of these men and women experts on dating out here, there is a dent in the armor when it comes to their relationship status. One, can't stay faithful; the other can't find a man but knows everything about them. You name the flaw, this guru has it. However, Alison seems to have all the chips aligned when it comes to the bows and arrows of love making. Not saying that she is perfect and I am not compensated in any form to promote her, but when it comes to dating topics, Alison is one of the best in the game.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 months ago in Humans
The Brand New Significant Other
I don't know about y'all, but my wheels have completely fallen off! This article is for all the ones who had that supporting spouse or significant other in their corner, and treated them like a sub-level human after "making it". Yes, I have not lost all faith in relationships, but I will never put another women through school and to see her run off with another guy.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 months ago in Humans
The Art of Gift Giving
This is a wonderful time during the calendar year! Although I’m not a fan of holiday gifting, I still admire the craft of knowing the person you are close to, or trying to get close to and gift giving is so important when it comes to any relationship. I use to be so ticked when I use to spend hours and consideration for a Mother’s Day gift, and return, to receive a Captain America watch for Father’s Day. Placing consideration into a gift is not a gender specific task! Men, if you don’t receive something special the only you can benefit from, then it’s time to consider a new mate.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 months ago in Humans
Wrong is Wrong!
Yet again, another life has been taken away from us and that is a bottom line that we need to prevent. I'm not here to smear what we already know. Unfortunately, these brothers will get what is coming to them, as all officers that swear to uphold the law and protect the citizens of their local community. This article is not about defunding the police, or backing the blue, but a highlight of those who excuse their title for good character.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 months ago in Humans
Fine Dining
Excuse the method to my madness, but there many levels when it comes to fine dining. I can remember when I was on a date as a novice and a young woman and I were about to enjoy a good meal. Me, not knowing and lacking couth, the server poured a sample amount of wine in my glass. I gave the server a strange look and told him not to be shy and fill my glass up. Knowing what I know now, she could have crawled under the table after my top tier restaurant decorum.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 months ago in Humans
The Valentine's Day Massacre
I am a hopeless romantic by all means! I'm the first guy to purchase a gift or send flowers on "just because" terms. As the New Yorkers would say, I got receipts! However, I am not the one to ever get caught up into holiday spending. No, far from cheap, I just like for my coins to be spent in a sensible manner. I could be far off the radar, but the emotional chip needs to be put in check when it comes to this day. In the past, I made the effort to buy flowers, plan dates and I thought to myself! What makes Valentine's Day different from any other day when I am doing the same process. I am always buy flowers and planning dates! Is this not the man's role when he is in courting mode, and in relationship mode? So after all these years, what sets Valentine's Day special from any other day? Lets try to look at how this day got started!
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 months ago in Humans
