Heart Centered Universe
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Author of Transcendence A Memoir, SAG Actress, and Real Estate Agent based in Miami Beach, FL. My blog is about what I feel called to share with the worldđ Be Happy and VIBE HIGH! âď¸â¤ď¸ www.authorrebeccajbrock.com.
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Reasons Why Gold Diggers Are Bad for Relationships
Gold Diggers are everywhere these days. The dictionary defines a Gold Digger as a woman âwho becomes or tries to become romantically involved with a rich man in order to get money and gifts from him.â Um, excuse me? Maybe the dictionary hasnât been updated in a few years because male Gold Diggers are just as common these days. (Resist the urge to vomit, please.) So I turned to the Urban Dictionary, which says a Gold Digger is âa person who goes out with you foâ yoâ money.â This is verbatim people. But in all seriousness, this insanity just needs to end. And hereâs how.
By Heart Centered Universe6 years ago in Humans
Is Power Play in a Relationship Worth It?
Power is defined as the ability or right to control people or things. Weâve all heard the saying "he wears the pants" to refer to a man who basically holds all the "power" in a relationship. But I always sayâŚthe best relationships are the ones where no one is wearing pants. But all kidding aside, to maintain a healthy relationship there must be a delicate balance of power. Each party involved should feel the freedom to truly be themselves and that their opinions and concerns matter. Everyone has something that they are good at, and the best partnerships work together as a team, acknowledging each other's strengths and weaknesses. So you want to have a balanced relationship? Iâve got a few ideas on how you might get thereâŚ
By Heart Centered Universe6 years ago in Humans
Why Communication Is Key in a Relationship
Good communication is the basis of any healthy relationship. Whether you are talking or listening, both are equally important. Men and women communicate in different ways, but itâs clear that for any relationship to work we need to find a common ground. Communicating happens not only through words but by body language and tone of voice as well. As human beings, we have a basic need to connect with others. In fact, true intimacy comes from revealing your "true self," which is done through proper communication.
By Heart Centered Universe6 years ago in Humans
When Is the Right Time to Bring Your New Relationship Into the Bedroom?
Iâm sure everyone has read at least one book about relationships from the so-called "experts." Each author has a different opinion about intimacy, but an overwhelming majority of them advise waiting for two to three months before "hooking up." Personally, Iâve never dated a man that is willing to wait that long (and even I couldnât/wouldnât hold out for months on end). The truth is that everyone is different and there are no rules. I know couples that hooked up on the first night they met and are happily married with kids. Still others waste time dating for months only to find out thereâs no sizzle in the bedroom. When to get intimate is a personal call only you can make. But I do have a few guidelines regarding this subject.
By Heart Centered Universe6 years ago in Humans
How To Drop the L Bomb the Right Way
Love makes the world go around. Love conquers all. Itâs all about the love. Truly, love is one of the most important basic human needs. So why is it so hard to say? The L bomb is just what it sounds likeâŚthe first time someone says "I love you." Apparently, some men (Iâm guessing the eternal bachelor types) compare saying "I love you" to an explosion with potentially disastrous consequences. But falling in love is an amazing experience and life just wouldnât be the same without it. Nothing else in the world can make a person feel as special as when they are told they are loved. So I have come up with some helpful guidance when it comes to dropping the L bombâŚproceed with caution!
By Heart Centered Universe6 years ago in Humans
How To Navigate Social Media and Dating Like a Pro
As if dating in the modern world wasnât complicated enough, with the advent of social media, itâs become downright convoluted. While social media can be a great vehicle to obtain more information about the person youâre dating, itâs made the mating ritual awfully chaotic. From Tweets to Facebook statuses to Instagram hashtagsâŚis anyone else feeling confused? Well, it doesnât have to be if you follow my guidelines. Here we goâŚ
By Heart Centered Universe6 years ago in Humans
Tips to Make the First Date Great
Chemistry is a very tricky thing. The definition of chemistry is a strong attraction between two people. Science canât describe it or explain why itâs there. It could be anything from the sound of his/her voice to the way he or she smells. But if youâre really listening to your intuition, you should be able to tell if thereâs any chemistry on the first date.
By Heart Centered Universe6 years ago in Humans
How To Make the Dating Revolution Work for You
In this Modern Age, there is a revolution going on between the "old" and the "new" way of thinking when it comes to relationships. As the divorce rate climbs higher, we celebrate because life is too short to live unhappily. But part of the learning process in life comes directly from intimate relationshipsâyet many of us today find ourselves single. Nature ensures that we continuously seek out a mate by the modern ritual we call Dating.
By Heart Centered Universe6 years ago in Humans
Defining the Relationship
The moment a man hears the phrase âwe need to talkâ, he immediately breaks out in a cold sweat. Yes, Iâm talking about the dreaded where is this relationship going talk. Well, I have news for you men, some women dread it too. But wherever you fall on the dread scale, defining the relationship is something that needs to be done. After all, who revels in waking up day after day not knowing where your relationship is going? Itâs brutal! And so DTR (defining the relationship) becomes a necessityâŚ
By Heart Centered Universe6 years ago in Humans