Intellectual Intercourse: Finances and Fishnets — The Art of Financial Domination
"Don't yuck someone else's yum" is a common maxim in sex-positive communities. However, there are still some kinks and fetishes that get side-eyed. People who have no issue with folks engaging in sadism or watersports can start to kink shame when it comes to financial domination, “findom” for short. Findom is a D/s dynamic that involves a Findom or Findomme and a finsub. As with DD/lg, pet play, or any other D/s pairing, no two relationships are going to look exactly alike. But, in the broadest terms, the Findom(me) demands cash, and the finsub sends it—usually referred to simply as sending, a tribute, or in more extreme cases, a wallet drain.