Divorce by Rose
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Divorce by Rose brings together parents who are contemplating divorce or newly separated WITH coaches, experts and professionals who have the tools and strategies to guide you towards finding your answers. https://www.divorcebyrose.com/
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Divorce Is Like The Lost And Found
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY Is divorce always dreadful? Or could it be a golden opportunity? Do you feel you have LOST a part of yourself? Would you like to REIGNITE that part of you? You have a critical choice to make: you either focus on finding the treasure or, keeping the garbage. Will you get out of “yesterday”? Are you laser focused on your end goal- on what it is that you TRULY want in your life? …. Divorce is like the lost and found. If I say this to you, does it resonate with you? … I used to be somebody when I got married. I was a particular person. I liked doing certain things, I had certain hobbies, I had certain interests and I was a certain kind of character. Now, years later after being married, I’m a totally different person. Sometimes I look in the mirror and I don’t even recognize myself. I don’t even know who I am anymore….
By Divorce by Rose2 years ago in Families
Is Divorce a Comparison Game?
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY. Do you know how many times I’ve heard people saying to me “my divorce was so much worse than yours” “mine was worse than his and hers and everyone else’s collectively” “because you know that my ex did” “you know what he did” “you know what she said”
By Divorce by Rose2 years ago in Humans
I was NOT Prepared for My Divorce | Dealing with Divorce
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY: I honestly had no idea what was going on. The only thing I remember simply is that when I got separated, I honestly thought it was just, he goes his way, I go my way, we don’t fit well as a married couple so, let’s just go on with our lives. Little did I know that I was so naïve. Little did I know that I did not understand what was about to come my way. I had no idea that my whole life was going to turn upside down. I had no idea that the stress would be so overwhelming that I ended up sick every single year for six years in a row.
By Divorce by Rose2 years ago in Families
True Divorce Story: Little Sally's pair of Shoes and Grilled Cheesed Sandwich cost $5,000!
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY So, I left Sally’s pink shoes at the father’s house and the father refuses to give me back the shoes. So, I argue back and forth and say, “give me back the shoes- I bought them”. And he says, “no, not giving you back Sally’s pink shoes”. So, I go to my lawyer and I say “he won’t give me back the shoes and I want the shoes back, I bought them, I paid them. Here’s the receipt and I want them back”.
By Divorce by Rose2 years ago in Families
No one is Protected From Divorce | Divorce Planning
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY There’s no way these dramas and stories are going to happen to them…. There’s no way that these situations are going to happen because the X doesn’t have money. The X doesn’t have that power… The X doesn’t have the ability or the capacity to do that… The ex is a nice person- he or she would never do anything like that. And I’ll tell you something, if you think that you can PREDICT what your ex or soon to be ex is going to be like, you are DELUSIONAL. You cannot predict what your soon to be ex is going to turn into just as much as you cannot predict that they’re always going to say and do what they say they’re going to do. Things change, life changes, situations change, people come and go into their lives: new girlfriends, new boyfriends, new husbands, new wives, new circumstances arise. You cannot predict. And this is why all I always say you must at the very, very beginning, even BEFORE you talk about getting divorced, you must carefully and logically plan your divorce.
By Divorce by Rose2 years ago in Families
Words of Inspiration: Thinking About Getting Divorced?
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY: Sometimes we just need some words of inspiration. We just need to feel inspired, uplifted and energized. We need to feel good, we need to feel that there is a solution, we need to feel that there is an answer- that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. You will get this when you’re surrounded by supportive people. You will get this when you’re surrounded by people who feel like you, who act like you, who are looking for solutions, who are looking to upgrade, who are looking to up level, who are looking for realistic ways to move forward with life. This is what we do in Divorce by Rose. That is essentially why I created this Divorce Community APP. It’s to have this like-minded support coming from parents from around the world who are feeling the same way as you, behaving the same way as you, and feeling the same ways where sometimes they are lost and confused- they just need some direction or they just need to talk to someone in an ANONYMOUS environment. So, I asked some people this week to give me a sentence or two about how you feel this week that Divorce by Rose helped you? And I just wanted to share some of the comments with you. Remember that everyone is remaining anonymous on this app so all their names are unusual- no one is really using their real names.
By Divorce by Rose2 years ago in Humans
This Divorce Response : "I'll try" Makes Me Cringe!
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY I'm honestly convinced that I should have studied psychology before I got divorced. And the reason is that I think my life would have been easier. I think I would have understood things better. I would have gone through less trial and errors. And life would have been more peaceful post-divorce. And the one main area that I will never forget and certainly still lingers around a little bit is, when I was married, my ex used to always say, when I ask him to do something or anything like that, his answer was always, "I'll try" or "It should be OK" or "I don't see why not, but I'm not quite sure".
By Divorce by Rose2 years ago in Families
This Divorce Response : "I'll try" Makes Me Cringe!
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY: Divorce comes with many annoyances. I’m honestly convinced that I should have studied psychology before I got divorced. And the reason is that I think my life would have been easier. I think I would have understood things better. I would have gone through less trial and errors. And life would have been more peaceful post-divorce. And the one main area that I will never forget and certainly still lingers around a little bit is, when I was married, my ex used to always say, when I ask him to do something or anything like that, his answer was always, “I’ll try” or “It should be OK” or “I don’t see why not, but I’m not quite sure”.
By Divorce by Rose2 years ago in Families
Divorcing? Honor Your Marriage
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY. I often say that it could be that divorce is worse than death. And the reason I say that is because when there is a death of your spouse or your loved one, at the end of the day, after all the grieving and the loss of whatever was, you’re still left with good memories. You want to remember the good days. You want to remember the good times you had together. You want to remember all the good that came out of your togetherness, your marriage, your union, your love. When you are getting divorced, it is the polar opposite. You want to scratch all that. You want to forget every good that possibly happened. You literally, in an instant, overnight, are eliminating every possible good memory that you have together. And I have to tell you that is wrong. We have to learn to honor our marriage.
By Divorce by Rose2 years ago in Families
Your Easy Divorce: Focus on Your Divorce Legacy
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY: You should be highly considering your divorce legacy. I find that one of the greatest challenges that we have as parents is protecting and sheltering our children from unnecessary chaos and drama. And for some families, more than others, I guess, the drama could be severely amplified or severely exaggerated in some way.
By Divorce by Rose2 years ago in Families
Are Children of Divorce Ready?
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY. Parent, marriage and coaching: You know what the one main commonality is between all divorces across the world? No matter if you’re a low class, middle class, no class, CEO, Hollywood star, solopreneur — whatever it is you are, the one commonality is that your children and my children are all going to be leading the world one day.
By Divorce by Rose2 years ago in Families
Divorce Questions: The Art of Storytelling
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY. Divorce can make you a pro at story telling. You will find yourself repeating: "Do you want to know what he just did to me? Do you want to know what my ex just said to me? I can't even believe he had the audacity to say that! I can't even believe he just did that! I have had nothing but problems with him for the last decade, and I am so sick and tired of it, and I don't even know what to do anymore. What do you think I should do? How do you think I should do it?"
By Divorce by Rose2 years ago in Families