Ideally speaking, casual relationships and flings develop in the first place under controlled circumstances. Ground rules are set and both parties are completely up front from the get-go as far as what they do and don’t expect. Real life doesn’t always play out that way though. Sometimes, you just find yourself in the thick of things without knowing how you got there.
Despite the way society can make you feel sometimes, being in a relationship isn’t a magic key to happiness for everyone. Yes, sharing your life with someone special definitely has its benefits, but there’s a lot to love about the single life as well, especially for members of the LGBTQ community. In fact, more people than ever are beginning to realize this and embrace single-hood for the awesome thing that it is. The following are just a few of the best reasons why you should too.
It goes without saying that casual dating is really different from the traditional committed approach most of us are used to. There are fewer certainties and guarantees involved, but there are also fewer rules to follow and restrictions to worry about. The whole experience is a lot less serious and a lot more carefree as well. Whether or not that’s a good thing really depends on the individual.
Whether you’re looking for Mr. Right, or really only interested in Mr. Right Now, for the moment, it goes without saying that dating as a gay, bi, or queer man can be pretty frustrating. Not only do gay men have to deal with all the same hurdles straight people do, but they’re often thrown a few extra curve balls for good measure.
We all know someone who not only sexts regularly, but who talks about it like it’s the easiest, most effortless thing in the world. Not everyone’s a natural when it comes to red hot sexts that really get a person’s blood flowing though, so if you often find yourself struggling to find the right words and get lost in the moment, you’re definitely not alone.
While there’s definitely something to be said for slow, sensual sex that lasts awhile, quickies definitely bring their own benefits to the table. They’re great ways to keep your libido in check when circumstances don’t really allow for your usual repertoire. Plus, they can be seriously hot when approached properly. Here we’ll go over everything you need to know to make sure your quickies are always red hot.