Chai Steeves
Bio
I'm an eclectic guy - I like writing about sex, relationships, parenting, politics, celebrity trivia - the works. I'm happily married and a father of 2.
Stories (44/0)
Should I Feel Bad About Feeling Jealous When My Wife Flirts With Others?
I've always had an uneven relationship with jealousy. As a sexually open person, I've tended to think of jealousy as a bit of emotion, born mainly of insecurity. The Moliere school of thought — "he who is jealous loves more, but he who is not jealous loves better."
By Chai Steevesabout a year ago in Filthy
Am I A Bad Parent If I Don’t Like Talking About Kids?
One of my oldest friends recently told me she thought she was a fifteen-year-old trapped in a 40-year-old's body. She has kids that age and is — honestly — an amazing mom. She spends most of her social time with her kids and their friends, and her kids are, easily, her number one interest.
By Chai Steevesabout a year ago in Families
Our First Professional Erotic Photo Shoot
My wife and I have taken our fair share of sexy photos. Usually it’s a few impromptu shots with our phones when we’re in a sexy mood. Other times we’ll go to the trouble of getting out the SLR camera, dressing up, and trying for some higher equality ‘boudoir’ photos. But it’s always a little disappointing. The lighting isn’t quite right or our expressions aren’t as sensual as we imagine. These photos always look better in our imagination than they turn our to be on the screen of our computer once we’ve downloaded and looked at them.
By Chai Steevesabout a year ago in Filthy
What People Tell Their Sex Therapist
I’ve always felt that being a sex therapist is my missed calling. Friends tell me I give good relationship advice (they may simply hum me, but I choose to believe it), and I’m fascinated by sex. Not (only) in a nervy way, but by how it's such an ultra-important, front of mind thing for most of us, yet so taboo to discuss openly.
By Chai Steeves2 years ago in Filthy
Do Your Sexual Kinks Embarrass You?
A very close friend recently confided that she found it very erotic to be peed on by her lover. For her, its wasn’t dirty or particularly kinky, but rather an intensely intimate experience. It started as something they would do in the shower, and then grew from there. It’s still a somewhat rare thing for them, but she really, really likes it.
By Chai Steeves2 years ago in Filthy
