I've always wondered why people call it 'falling in love'. I never wanted to call it falling, because it would imply that I was never prepared for it. I wanted to refer to it as walking into love. In order to imply that getting into a relationship, love should be the end result, therefore it becomes something you walk into because it is expected. But love is patience and seeks peace, love is kind and thoughtful, it is not jealous or envious. It is not rude or self-seeking, it bears all things and believes and hopes for good in all things. Love endures, love never fades or ends. That is real love, which explains the falling when we are in love, because love is out of control. Love is unpredictable, and has no safety net, because we never know what will happen.
There is a quote that I heard once and ever since then it finds its way back into every circumstance I find my self in. "Everything you want to attain in life is on the other side of fear."