20y/o from Cambridge, ON
Educating on controversial topics and living on adrenalin to get there
Me and My Best Friend Were Sugarbabies
When I was a sugar baby last year, I invited my friend Ally to do some meets with me since I knew she was struggling financially and I needed someone to help my anxiety since I was just starting out myself. We did two meets together, the first was uneventful, the guy actually left before doing anything. The second, is the one I am going to talk about today.
Children of Mental Illness Raising Children of Mental Illness
I'll say it from the beginning- I am not a parent; I have sisters who like myself struggle with mental illness, while we have parents who also struggle with mental illness. Not only have I seen the effects it can have on the kids, ive also experienced caretaking while struggling with mental illness for not only my sisters but others as well. It's not a bad thing when someone who has mental illness has a child, in fact I think it's amazing and strong, but I do believe that those who don't properly do self care or overwhelm themselves while having a kid can have effects.
It Happened Again
It happened again. If you remember my article about being left in parking lots, you'll know I've been put into some sticky situations. Well the other day, after weeks of convincing, I did an outcall just to be abandoned outside of a apartment building thirty minutes from where I live, in the middle of the night.
Being Admitted to Psych
Content Warning; reference to self harm, drugs, disturbing moments (do note that though it is a lot to take in, it is extremely insightful into drug induced psychosis and being in the psychiatric ward of the hospital. My visit will not be the same as anyone else due to personal circumstances however I will do my best to be as informative as I am able)
So about OnlyFans...
As most of you know, I am an OnlyFans creator (onlyfans.com/xoxeiviexox), I have been doing it for about six months, give or take, and I have a lot of fun with it. I am (as of Jan. 30th 2021) in the top 17% of creators which is awesome. Something I struggled with started out though, was making consistent money. It was also a struggle not to let those dollar amounts get in the way of my mental health. In this article, I am going to attempt to cover everything I wish I knew sooner about OnlyFans, ways I made the money I have made, and discuss how OnlyFans can affect your mental health.
What Would You do if Your Kid was Diagnosed with Autism?
As someone who has autism and has a family member with autism, I come across the question of what someone would do if they had a kid with autism, but nobody ever asks me. You would think as a person with experience with autism, I would be the first person anyone asks. I found everyone else's responses focus on the needs of themselves and not of the child, and though I understand it, I don't stand by it.
Question: Why Did You Choose to be an Escort?
A question I get quite often, mostly from clients who had my number from my sugar baby days or who were used to meeting sugar babies, is why do I choose to be an escort over being a sugar baby. They do bring up some valid points themselves about money over time and safety from STI's, however in my experience it was a degrading experience. I wasn't intending on discussing this topic (at least not so soon and without more articles as background) however the amount of times I get asked this question is insane. I also think it is insane how many girls are turning to being a sugar baby, I am not saying they should be escorts, I am saying they should be educated in all sex worker fields before going into any of them.
Being an escort is not an easy job. Its hard to feel safe when behind any screen could be a horror movie waiting to be written. These past few weeks, I couldn't help but think of ways to improve escorting quality and safety in KW. Though being independent is amazing, there are a lot of downsides mostly concerning safety; Although a pimp wouldn't be much better. Money is always a downside when working with others as well. Escorting could be safer and not cost you half your profits.
Deposits on Pre-Booked Appointments
As an escort, I spend a lot of my time waiting; whether I am waiting for a response from a potential client, or guessing if the client will show up to their appointment at all. It is hard to feel safe when you give your address to someone and they don't show up. It is also hard not to be enraged because more of my time was wasted. So, I am starting to take deposits, but before I did I wanted to write about what deposit it, why I collect them, and more.
Times I've been Left in a Parking Lot
I never thought I would have to tell people not to leave girls in parking lots; but here we are. It has not happened once, but three times. The first time I was lucky enough to be in front of my place of residence. The second time, it was a very awkward appointment. They booked through email then did not answer until thirty minutes after I left. The third time, I was about thirty minutes out of town. It's not uncommon when someone books an incall appointment that they say they are there and they're not, or when they just ghost out of no where. It was uncommon for me to experience these things on outcalls.