
Aphinya Dechalert
Living the online hustle life and making digital ink.
Just A Metal Horse Gemini - Or Am I?
The Chinese zodiac is a force to be reckoned with. According to legend, a multitude of animals entered a heavenly race and the first twelve to cross the finish line gets glorified in all of human history and time. The rat came first, the pig came last. The year you are born can determine your love life, temperament, career, health, and lucky numbers.
Aphinya DechalertPublished 2 days ago in FuturismThe Little Black Book
The kids called him Littl' Short because he always seems to be short of something. If it's not his lack of school stationery, then it's the food in his lunchbox. The boy slouched as he walked home, a 15-mile hike because someone had taken his bike again.
Aphinya DechalertPublished 8 days ago in FuturismHow To Solve 90% Of Your Relationship Problems
I’m not a relationship expert but I’ve had my fair share of misunderstandings and arguments. I’m not a perfect human either. I can be hot-tempered, easily annoyed, and completely miss the plot when it comes to understanding what the other person is saying.
Aphinya DechalertPublished 14 days ago in HumansMy Experiences Of Navigating Dev Work In A Male-Dominated World
I often get asked how it feels to navigate dev work as a female. In the beginning, I’d often get confused by the question. Sure, there’s a lot of guys in the room but that’s never really bothered me. They are generally smart and highly logical thinkers. I balanced it out with my unorthodox tangents and creative solutions.
Aphinya DechalertPublished 22 days ago in VivaOn growing up “over-loved” and motherhood
3 years ago, I officially became a mother. 3 years ago, I had a rough idea about what motherhood will be like. Sleepless nights. Cold dinners. You’re going to be tripled tired (if that’s even a word).
Aphinya DechalertPublished 22 days ago in FamiliesHow To Make Goals That Sticks
New year, new beginnings, right? The truth is, you don’t need a new year to make change happen. We often attach desires of grand change to events such as birthdays, the beginning of months, and the most popular of them all — the beginning of a new year.
Aphinya DechalertPublished 22 days ago in MotivationWhat It Means To Be Vulnerable
Vulnerable. adjective. Exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally. Vulnerability — something many of us avoid due to fear of being judged, hurt, or failure. To be vulnerable means to put ourselves in a position that could potentially hurt us.
Aphinya DechalertPublished 23 days ago in MotivationHow To Be A Good Lobster
No one really paid attention to lobsters, unless you were eating them. Then along came a clinical psychologist and the next you know, how we socialize and respond to our environment becomes compared to the crustacean.
Aphinya DechalertPublished 26 days ago in Motivation